Relationships: You’re not ready for one.

If you have to post this image, then it sends red flags that you aren’t ready to be in a relationship:

We are human, we’re not perfect. I understand this. But I feel if you know you are damaged, then you should know you have some work to do on yourself before you commit to a healthy relationship.

“I’ll shut you out,” and in the same breath, “I’ll need reassurance.”

How is this fair to you potential partner. It’s stating that you won’t always be there for them, yet you expect them to be there for you as well as “to keep choosing” you.

Also stating the reason you will not trust this person because “everyone has lied, cheated, or left you,” is putting unwarranted issues on this supposed relationship decreasing the health in it.

If turned around and some guy posted that he will cheat to compensate for his past relationships, or he’ll get overly jealous of your friends, family, any person you come into contact — would you want to date him? I didn’t think so.

You don’t have to be perfect; in fact, that is an impossible feat. But if you want a healthy relationship you must first work on and love yourself.


Post brought to you by me being too chicken shit to call out a friend for posting this. This right here is probably my main reason for blogging.